Tag Archives: advice

May 08

May I Have Your Attention, Please?

“How long ‘til I’m better?” I inquired to my therapist one day. “Well, I can’t put a figure on it,” he replied, jotting something in his notes. “Um, I beg to differ. The invoices you send me monthly say otherwise.” As I left his office, I realized I needed to take some initiative toward moving […]

July 24

After the Black Eye Has Healed

So, let’s say you escaped what could’ve been an even bigger disaster of a relationship than Rihanna and Chris Brown. Now all you have to do is deal with piecing yourself back together. Sure, there’s always the break-up rituals we all have but when you’ve been physically and mentally reduced to nothing, there’s even more […]

July 10

Does This Black Eye Make Me Look Fat?

Fire Down Below answers questions like, Ever cracked your head open during sex? Ever gotten an STD & the person who gave it to you denied it? Dating an abusive man? Tired of all the games involved with dating? Not sure if you should do a threesome? Read how I dealt with these & many other issues most people don’t talk about. You’ll laugh, you’ll tear up, you’ll want to take a shower. Think Sex & The City meets Roseanne.

March 10

Jenny McCarthy Gets ‘Dirty, Sexy, Funny’ in Palm Beach | March 20 – 21, 2015

The bluntly outrageous comedian/author brings her EPIX comedy special Dirty, Sexy, Funny on tour, including four shows at The Palm Beach Improv, March 20 – 21.The special will also air on A&E, March 11 at 10:30pm ET. At 42, McCarthy’s honesty, humility and humor have enabled her to transcend the boundaries of her roles as […]

September 09

One Hot Minute With… Colby Keller

For more than 10 years, Colby Keller has been the star of fantasies for many a gay man. Most know of his work on-screen, but most may not realize that art is his true passion. While attending Maryland Institute College of Art for his graduate degree, Keller began doing porn to support his art. From […]

May 12

8 Things Annoying Gay Men Do

1.) Guys who take and post a daily selfie. (Extra douche points if they’re shirtless at the gym.) Honey, you’re not Rembrandt. Basic. 2.) Guys who ask you how you’re doing and once you begin telling them, they get distracted and/or completely cut you off in search of something shiny. “I’m sorry. Did you want […]

February 13

Two Date Maximum

Dating can be a bitch – especially around Valentine’s Day. It can also be like a comedy club with a two drink minimum. If you’re able to spot the red flags within one to two dates you’ll be able to save yourself a lot of grief and weed out the not-so potential suitors Inspired by […]

November 20

30 Reasons I’m Thankful to Be a Gay Man

1.) Sex & The City. 2.) An innate sense of style. 3.) The interior decorator gene. There’s no excuse for shitty décor; walking into a home that looks like a 70’s thrift store or college dorm or Urban Outfitters is not “vintage,” it’s disturbing. 4.) My home state of Illinois becoming the 16th state to […]

October 12

Two Marriage Proposals & a Concussion, Part 3: Snap Out of it!

Back on the prowl, D and I were at Roscoe’s for that weekly routine of men really letting their hair hang down, “Drag Race.” We were there to support two of the “girls,” friends of ours. After the show, D and I split up to mingle for a bit. Sufficiently buzzed, I was off to […]